''OPEN MIND OPEN HEARTS''

To tolerate others implies to accept them and to put up with them and this is the essence of all relationships. And freedom in any relationship is not about promiscuity in some or all aspects of life.

It's a dance of autonomy and connection

It captures the essence of a long-term relationship perfectly—it is both freeing and bound by connections. It's wonderful if you can find a career that you enjoy and can stay who you are, but these partnerships involve love, care, and shared interests. This type of liberty creates opportunities for trust and progress by allowing others to bring their whole selves to the table.

It's about setting healthy boundaries

It is about balancing between saying no and saying yes while at the same time having the freedom to embrace who we are as a person.

This makes it to be a dynamic rather than a restrictive cage to make your life together fulfilling as well as meaningful.

If you do what you want, ''I will not have any worries''

This is an interpretation of the fact that it is always alright to allow people to go their own way regardless of what they wish to do. It is a kind of means not to allow their actions to affect the empathizer or bring bout stress in you.

It can also be viewed as some kind of an acknowledgement that you do not interfere with the other person’s decision-making process because you believe they will make the right decision for themselves. You are sure they will make the right decisions even if you don’t comprehend the rationale behind their actions.

Trust and Autonomy

 It presupposes that communication between the two people is based on trust. It means that you trust the other person with his or her decision-making abilities and choices. By letting them “do what they want,” you are getting to say, “I believe in you to decide on what is perfect for you and won’t worry about consequences because I know you should handle it well. ” These words make the others feel independent and bring you closer because it shows that you respect their decisions.

Freedom from worries

Most of the time, anxiety is fuelled by a need to control all aspects of life. Thus, by understanding that you cannot control things and that the other man has his or her right to act in a way that can be regarded as desirable, you will not worry in vain.
This will create a feeling of serenity, a world without the stress of trying to manage people, especially their choices and actions. This cannot be equated to detachment but it is more of a way of redirecting one’s efforts towards what one can influence which is, for the most part, one’s conduct and response.

Relief from Responsibility

 This may be enlightening as it comes with the notion that people have the power to challenge their unavoidable oppressions and have a responsibility to do so. It has the advantage of eradicating the problem-solving authority or the role that makes decisions for people with an actual human personality. Success or happiness cannot be imposed on anyone. With that acceptance, we release ourselves from the position of being let down if things do not exactly go smoothly.

Accepting the control restrictions

Last but not least, the meaning of “If you do what you want” is to accept the fact that there is a restricted area of control. If one or both parts stop trying to control the processes and look for directions, new scenarios will appear, and trust can heighten the interactions.

This means freedom of speech, complete confidence in the other person’s decision-making and accepting their decision even if you do not agree with them. This entails having the right to free expression, having total faith in the other person's judgment, and respecting their choice even if they disagree with it. 

This flexibility enhances the personality inside the relationship, leading to a higher degree of commitment because of a positive sense of mutual selection.
This serves as a friendly reminder to treat others with tolerance and understanding. Put simply, it's a way of saying that you won't let someone use their actions to control your feelings.

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